It's really no secret how much I love my church. But occasionally there are moments when I feel like my heart very well may explode at any given moment. Occasionally I step back and just watch - It's a beautiful thing when you can watch the church be the church, love the church and build up the church. When pride and competition are out of the picture and all that is left is a common goal: to Love Jesus and make Him known among all nations.
Tonight we just finished up Day 2 of GROW, a conference specifically aimed to help churches under 1000 exceed 1000. Many of these churches are young church plants, but oh how these pastors and leaders are desperate for a move of God in their cities. It blows my mind that in one night I was able to talk to leaders from London, Tampa, Houston, Chicago and Idaho. I get the honor and privilege of telling them how small groups and serving on the dream team has literally CHANGED MY LIFE. Not in some fake cliché way, but authentically changed my life. My walk with the Lord is stronger than ever, I've learned how to pray bold audacious prayers, how to lead like Christ. I've learned the importance of having a mentor, accountability partner, and mentee. We were never meant to do life alone! I've learned to dream God-size dreams. My relationships from small groups literally saved my marriage. My life is noticeably different - I pray my life is noticeably different.
So the fact that I get to share even the tiniest bit with these pastors about the heartbeat and the DNA of our church is such an honor. I am literally watching global missions take place under one roof . {What other setting are you able to serve for such a short time period and touch people from so many different places!} These pastors are being trained, equipped, encouraged, and prayed over and they are going to go back to their churches and change the world. Because the local church mobilized is the hope of the world.
One of the things I love about this week every summer is watching all these churches come together. When you boil it all down, church isn't about us. It's about reaching the lost. God is distracted by the lost. He loves seeing his kids gather to worship, but his heart is breaking for those still away from home. So as a church, it's our responsibility to steward well (not hoard!) the resources the Lord has given us in order to leverage them in such a way to reach more people. It is so exciting to be able to freely give everything we have to these churches and then watch as the Lord blesses and used them to reach areas we would never be able to impact.
So tonight my heart is full. THE church is a beautiful thing. I'm praying that each church represented would experience fresh vision and passion this week. That the Lord would show them unprecedented favor and when it's all said and done millions will come to know Jesus as their personal savior.
Wednesday, July 24, 2013
Tuesday, July 23, 2013
21 questions with Bethany
Today I asked Bethany the same 21 questions I asked Lane. Her answers cracked me up. Some were exactly what I thought she would say. Others were SO random!
What is your favorite animal?
What is your favorite color?
pink
What is your favorite t.v. show?
Doc McStuffins
(I thought she would have said Peppa Pig)
(I thought she would have said Peppa Pig)
What is your favorite Movie?
Leap Frog
Leap Frog
What is your favorite toy?
carrots
(Maybe she means picnic? I'm not completely sure. I thought she would have said her doctor kit, trains or Dora house)
What is your favorite game?
dinosaurs
(Again, random. I thought she would have said Hide & Seek or Pop the Pig)
(Again, random. I thought she would have said Hide & Seek or Pop the Pig)
Elephant
What is your favorite song?
The Mommy Song
(random, but she makes up a new song everyday and today it's the mommy song)
(random, but she makes up a new song everyday and today it's the mommy song)
What is your favorite book?
Peppa Pig
What is your favorite food?
carrots
(Really it would be strawberries, any kind of rice, cereal, honey and chips)
(Really it would be strawberries, any kind of rice, cereal, honey and chips)
What is your favorite holiday?
Church
(I guess every Sunday is a holiday at Highlands? :) )
(I guess every Sunday is a holiday at Highlands? :) )
What is your favorite sport or activity?
gymnastic :)
(we've been talking about starting gymnastics when school starts)
(we've been talking about starting gymnastics when school starts)
Where is your favorite place go?
church!
What is your favorite thing to wear?
red shirt
(I thought she would have said boots or sparkly shoes)
(I thought she would have said boots or sparkly shoes)
Who is your best friend?
Mommy
What do you want to be when you grow up?
a doctor
What makes you happy?
Doctors!
What makes you scared?
dinosaurs
What makes you sad?
shirts
What is your favorite thing to do with Mommy?
train tracks
What is your favorite thing to do with Daddy?
play blocks
What is your favorite thing to do with Lane?
go to the zoo
Monday, July 22, 2013
21 questions with Lane
Several months ago I got the idea from pinterest (here, and here, and here, and many more if you do a search) to ask the kids a set of questions every year on their birthday to watch how they grow and change. I'm a couple months late but today I asked Lane his 21 questions.
What is your favorite color?
red, green, blue and pink
What is your favorite t.v. show?
Henry Hugglemonster and Daniel Tigers Neighborhood
What is your favorite Movie?
If I Sang a Silly Song
What is your favorite toy?
all of them
What is your favorite game?
Pop the Pig, Super Why, and Balloon Bounce (keep a balloon from touching the ground)
What is your favorite animal?
Elephant
What is your favorite song?
Jump by Go Kids Music
What is your favorite book?
All of them
What is your favorite food?
wafflers, cinnamon toast waffles, gogurts and smoothies
What is your favorite holiday?
Christmas and my birthday
What is your favorite sport or activity?
Basketball and Spanish at Meadowbrook Baptist Preschool
Where is your favorite place go?
Veteran's Park, Chuck E. Cheese and Treetop Family Adventure
What is your favorite thing to wear?
My animal zoo shirt (a shirt he had when he was about 3. Clearly he loved that shirt!)
Who is your best friend?
Mrs. Kay, Patton, Olivia M. , Mia, Julie, Caroline, Maggie and Miller
What do you want to be when you grow up?
a fire fighter and an artist
What makes you happy?
everything that you (mommy) say
What makes you scared?
Giants and Bats
What makes you sad?
If you weren't my mommy
What is your favorite thing to do with Mommy?
Go to the Beach
What is your favorite thing to do with Daddy?
Be silly
What is your favorite thing to do with Bethany?
Play
Sunday, July 21, 2013
New recipes: Two-timin' Chicken pasta and Bean Burritos
A friend and I were talking recently about freezer cooking - possibly getting together and making/freezing several recipes. But really, I have no desire at this point in my life to spend a whole day cooking. But I have two recipes today that we have made and frozen several times and LOVE!
The first recipe came from a Birmingham Bargain Mom facebook post years ago ( I have NO idea who posted the recipe, but I love you sweet lady!) asking for your favorite 5 ingredient or less recipe 5 INGREDIENTS! woot woot! I makes a ton!! For a long time this was my go-to recipe when having a large group over for dinner. Then one night we decided to make it and freeze 1/2 to see how it turned out. Glory! It worked! So here is the recipe:
Two-timin' Chicken Pasta
1 Jar Spaghetti Sauce
1 Jar Alfredo Sauce
1 box penne noodles
2-3 Chicken breast (cooked and cut bite-size) (I've used rotisserie chicken too!)
2 C Mozzarella cheese
1 handful Parmesan
{I know, I know there are six ingredients. She must have felt like a rebel. I never use the Parmesan. The first time I made this, I forgot to buy the Parmesan. So, we just added more mozzarella and it turned out great.}
Cook chicken then cut it up. Cook pasta and drain.
In a large bowl, mix together Spaghetti sauce and Alfredo Sauce. Stir in 2 C mozzarella cheese and chicken. Then mix in the pasta with the sauces.
Pour into casserole dishes and bake 30 minutes at 350. Then sprinkle with Parmesan cheese and broil until browned.
Let sit for about 10 minutes for sauce to thicken.
To freeze: I either use 3 of the square foil pans or 2 rectangle pans. I freeze before baking. When I want to cook it, I pull it out of the freezer either the night before or that morning letting it defrost. then cook as directed above.
** I usually make this for dinner and then freeze 1/2 -2/3 before baking. Cook once and have dinner for 2 or 3 nights!
My other favorite freezer recipe, Bean Burritos, is a pinterest find from Oven Love. Here is the recipe:
Bean Burrito:
Directions:
Remove frozen burritos from plastic wrap. Place on a microwave-safe plate; microwave on high for 3 minutes. Transfer to baking sheet; bake at 450 degrees until crispy, about 10 minutes.
If only using a microwave, remove from plastic wrap, and place on a microwave-safe plate, covered with a microwave safe bowl. Defrost at high power for 3 to 4 minutes; uncover, and microwave on high 3 to 4 minutes longer.
**We prefer to reheat using the microwave and oven - the burritos get a little crunchy. But when Chris takes these to work just the microwave works fine too.
Again, I usually make this for dinner and then freeze the rest for a quick lunch or dinner.
The first recipe came from a Birmingham Bargain Mom facebook post years ago ( I have NO idea who posted the recipe, but I love you sweet lady!) asking for your favorite 5 ingredient or less recipe 5 INGREDIENTS! woot woot! I makes a ton!! For a long time this was my go-to recipe when having a large group over for dinner. Then one night we decided to make it and freeze 1/2 to see how it turned out. Glory! It worked! So here is the recipe:
Two-timin' Chicken Pasta
1 Jar Spaghetti Sauce
1 Jar Alfredo Sauce
1 box penne noodles
2-3 Chicken breast (cooked and cut bite-size) (I've used rotisserie chicken too!)
2 C Mozzarella cheese
1 handful Parmesan
{I know, I know there are six ingredients. She must have felt like a rebel. I never use the Parmesan. The first time I made this, I forgot to buy the Parmesan. So, we just added more mozzarella and it turned out great.}
Cook chicken then cut it up. Cook pasta and drain.
In a large bowl, mix together Spaghetti sauce and Alfredo Sauce. Stir in 2 C mozzarella cheese and chicken. Then mix in the pasta with the sauces.
Pour into casserole dishes and bake 30 minutes at 350. Then sprinkle with Parmesan cheese and broil until browned.
Let sit for about 10 minutes for sauce to thicken.
To freeze: I either use 3 of the square foil pans or 2 rectangle pans. I freeze before baking. When I want to cook it, I pull it out of the freezer either the night before or that morning letting it defrost. then cook as directed above.
** I usually make this for dinner and then freeze 1/2 -2/3 before baking. Cook once and have dinner for 2 or 3 nights!
My other favorite freezer recipe, Bean Burritos, is a pinterest find from Oven Love. Here is the recipe:
Bean Burrito:
1 1/2 cup rice (brown or white)
2 tablespoons olive oil
2 medium onions, chopped
4 garlic cloves, chopped
1 jalapeno chile, chopped (ribs and seeds removed,
for less heat)
1/2 teaspoon ground cumin
Coarse salt and ground pepper
3 tablespoons tomato paste
3 cans (15 ounces each) pinto beans, drained and
rinsed
1 bag frozen corn kernels (10 ounces)
16 burrito-size flour tortillas, 10 inches each
2 cups (8 ounces) shredded Monterrey Jack cheese
Salsa and sour cream, optional
{The original recipe says you only need 8 flour tortillas. I have NEVER been able to use only 8. Every time I make these, I make a different about (I guess we all know mine are clearly not uniform sized) but I usually make 13-15)
Directions:
- Cook rice according to package. Set aside
- Heat oil in skillet. Add onions, garlic, jalapeno, cumin, salt and pepper. Cook until golden, about 10-12 minutes. Add tomato paste, cook stirring about 1 minute
- Add beans and 1 1/2 C water; bring to boil, reduce heat and simmer stirring occasionally until thickened, about 10-12 minutes. Add corn, cook until heated through about 2-3 minutes. Remove from heat.
- Heat tortillas according to package.
- Assemble: Mound 1/4 cup rice, 3/4 cup bean mixture, and 1/4 cup cheese on one side of tortilla. Fold sides, and hold them in. Starting from filled end, holding sides in as you work, tightly roll into a bundle. Place on a baking sheet, seam side down, and prepare remaining burritos
- Serve immediately or wrap and freeze up to 3 months.
Remove frozen burritos from plastic wrap. Place on a microwave-safe plate; microwave on high for 3 minutes. Transfer to baking sheet; bake at 450 degrees until crispy, about 10 minutes.
If only using a microwave, remove from plastic wrap, and place on a microwave-safe plate, covered with a microwave safe bowl. Defrost at high power for 3 to 4 minutes; uncover, and microwave on high 3 to 4 minutes longer.
**We prefer to reheat using the microwave and oven - the burritos get a little crunchy. But when Chris takes these to work just the microwave works fine too.
Again, I usually make this for dinner and then freeze the rest for a quick lunch or dinner.
Wednesday, July 17, 2013
Oceans
The beach has long been my favorite place in the world. There is a beauty and majesty that leaves me in awe. It's impossible for me to stand on the shore of an ocean and not be overwhelmed with how big our God is yet he still knows me intimately and loves me deeply.
This morning I'm up watching wave after wave crash on the shore and I am so overwhelmed by the love of God. A love that I've known for almost 20 years. But every now and then I experience it in a new way, a deeper way.
I've realized how similar my relationship with God is to this huge ocean. I imagine sitting in the water and with each wave that crashes over me The Lord is teaching me something new about His character, His love or His passions. Sometimes he's teaching me the same lesson but taking me a bit deeper. Because just like this great ocean, if I was instantly dropped out in the middle or immediately saw the full glory of The Lord I know that I couldn't handle it. I would be fully consumed by His goodness and holiness. So I wait and press in and eagerly anticipate the next wave the Lord sends over me.
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
10 years from now
I am blessed with some truly amazing friends. People that EVERY time we are together push me closer to Christ, sharpen and challenge me. Friends that ask questions - hard questions- that leave me thinking and praying for days. Do you know anyone like this?
On my birthday I got to spend time with a few of my very favorite people in the world. My sweet friend Amy asked me what should have been a pretty easy question. I turned 30 this year, so she asked "where do you see yourself in 10 years?" I gave some crappy, vague answer that basically the last 10, even just the past 5 years, have been so life changing, so full of thing I never could have imagined that I can't imagine what life would be like in 10 years. Way to avoid the question, right? I'm gonna say she gave me birthday grace because normally she would call me out on that vague mess! But it did get me thinking and even better got me praying.
It's VERY easy for me to be happy doing what's in front of me right now. I am not a task oriented person AT ALL. I am very relational. So I tend to have a hard time planning things because I think more about the people than the task. Does that make since? I know that I want to help others grow in their calling, help them develop leadership skills. But it's so much easier to think about that with a specific person or group in mind than A broad checklist. But like the old quote says "fail to plan, plan to fail. " So here is my new answer to the next 10 years:
First, 10 years from now I want my marriage to be stronger and healthier than ever. I look forward to sharing what The Lord has done in our marriage and how far he has brought us. Lane and Bethany will be 15 and 13 😳 I pray that they will both love the Lord with their whole hearts. I pray they still want to talk to Chris and I and that they trust us. I pray that they have a passion for purity. I pray they are full of kindness and compassion. I want them to know what they believe in and stand firm but be known for what they are for rather than what they are against.
If you know me well, you know I have a huge passion for Called to Lead. I love serving in this area - helping leaders discover their purpose and helping to equip them to lead the way Christ led. I have a desire to share this with other churches. I don't know exactly how this will look or when this will happen but I know the Lord has put this on my heart.
Finally, I believe writing will be a big part of my life. Several months ago I felt like the Lord was telling me to blog more - so I have. I've also started journaling more. I'm not sure why - I don't view myself as an especially gifted writer. I'm sure many of my former English teachers cringe with each post. But for now I will be obedient and trust that if He wants to use me and I make myself available he can do something extraordinary with my average at best words. Like my son learns in kids church - do your best and God will do the rest.
So now I'm in the process of figuring out what I need to be doing now to prepare myself for then.
Have you thought about what the next 10 years might look like for you? It's pretty exciting to dream and the beauty of it is that if I'm wrong and the Lord has something completely different in store, I still know that all my preparation will not be in vain. I will have grown and my family will be stronger. But if I don't plan now and simply drift through life for the next decade then I certainly won't be ready to be used by God.
Sunday, June 30, 2013
Handprint crafts
We have had such a fun weekend filled with precious family and friends! Those are the best kind, right?
My very best friend moved across town this week. So Friday she brought her kids, Maggie and Miller, over to play while they moved in to the new house. Lane and Bethany love, love, love Maggie and Miller. They are much more like cousins than just friends - but they never really had a choice since Sarah and I have been best friends since 9th grade.
Maggie loves crafting with her WHOLE heart, so I've had several crafts that I wanted to do with them.
When I was in 2nd grade, my class had a slumber party at school and we made these cute hand print pillowcases. My mom kept it for so many years, so obviously I can't get rid of it now. Lane and Bethany have both gone through times when they were obsessed with sleeping with that pillowcase. Lane especially loves that it has my hand print from when I was a little girl.
I thought it would be special to have a friends pillowcase. So, I let each child pick out their favorite color. We took turns painting their hands. I plan to do this every couple of years to watch their hands grow. I think it would be a cute idea to do with cousins too.
So here is our finished product!
We did one more craft project. Since the 4th is coming up this week, we made these flag t-shirts. I painted the kids hands and then while they were playing with each other I added the red stripes. Maggie really liked the sparkle in the paint, so we found some glitter to make the girls shirts extra sparkly!
My very best friend moved across town this week. So Friday she brought her kids, Maggie and Miller, over to play while they moved in to the new house. Lane and Bethany love, love, love Maggie and Miller. They are much more like cousins than just friends - but they never really had a choice since Sarah and I have been best friends since 9th grade.
Maggie loves crafting with her WHOLE heart, so I've had several crafts that I wanted to do with them.
When I was in 2nd grade, my class had a slumber party at school and we made these cute hand print pillowcases. My mom kept it for so many years, so obviously I can't get rid of it now. Lane and Bethany have both gone through times when they were obsessed with sleeping with that pillowcase. Lane especially loves that it has my hand print from when I was a little girl.
So here is our finished product!
We did one more craft project. Since the 4th is coming up this week, we made these flag t-shirts. I painted the kids hands and then while they were playing with each other I added the red stripes. Maggie really liked the sparkle in the paint, so we found some glitter to make the girls shirts extra sparkly!
Saturday I spent the day in Mobile with family celebrating Jonathan and Sara's twins at their family shower. Lane and Bethany are so excited to meet their cousins. I think they think they are going to be born and then instantly ready to play with them! Anyway, I did not take a single picture yesterday, so I will share some as soon as Sara post some on facebook that I can steal. :)
Thursday, June 27, 2013
Beautiful nails and soft legs!
Once upon a time my nails were perfectly polished everyday. My mom owned the best nail salon in town (I may be a bit biased, but I'm fairly sure this is a fact.) So growing up, I generally kept a beautiful gel manicure. It was glorious. Then, my parents moved to Birmingham, mom closed up shop, and my nails have been a chipped mess every since.
I know, I know. I could just go down and find an awesome lady to do my nails, but really that doesn't fit into my budget or schedule. So that is usually saved for special times of the year.
Then one day, while browsing pinterest I found this pin that claimed a DIY gel nail.
Yes please! I loved that I only needed to buy one thing- the gelous nail polish. It's a bit of a process but I figured for the price I could give it a try. I followed her step by step instructions:
1) Apply two thin layers of the Gelous Nail Gel to your nails, allowing a couple minutes in between to dry a little bit. After applying your second coat, allow the gel to set. I waited about 3 minutes.
2) Next, apply a layer of your nail color and allow to dry (about 5 minutes)
3) Apply another layer of Gelous Nail Gel on top of your nail color and allow it to set for about 2 minutes so that it's semi-dry. Make sure that the ends of your nails are sealed by swiping the brush over top. This will ensure you won't see a single chip for the entire duration of your gel manicure.
4) Apply a second layer of nail color.
5) Finish it off with your choice of top coat. Stick with a fast drying top coat with high shine for the best results.
I. loved. it.
I am not gentle with my nails at all. I chase two kids. I'm constantly scrubbing and cleaning something and this held up. It took a while for me, but like I said mom always polished my nails growing up, so I feel about as coordinated as a two year old. Polishing my left hand is no problem, the right hand however is a completely different story.
Anyway this lasted perfectly on me for 1 1/2 weeks. Then I had just a few tiny chips which probably could have been alleviated if I had sealed the edges of my nails better. So give it a try! Here is my most recent finished manicure.
I know, I know. I could just go down and find an awesome lady to do my nails, but really that doesn't fit into my budget or schedule. So that is usually saved for special times of the year.
Then one day, while browsing pinterest I found this pin that claimed a DIY gel nail.
Yes please! I loved that I only needed to buy one thing- the gelous nail polish. It's a bit of a process but I figured for the price I could give it a try. I followed her step by step instructions:
1) Apply two thin layers of the Gelous Nail Gel to your nails, allowing a couple minutes in between to dry a little bit. After applying your second coat, allow the gel to set. I waited about 3 minutes.
2) Next, apply a layer of your nail color and allow to dry (about 5 minutes)
3) Apply another layer of Gelous Nail Gel on top of your nail color and allow it to set for about 2 minutes so that it's semi-dry. Make sure that the ends of your nails are sealed by swiping the brush over top. This will ensure you won't see a single chip for the entire duration of your gel manicure.
4) Apply a second layer of nail color.
5) Finish it off with your choice of top coat. Stick with a fast drying top coat with high shine for the best results.
I. loved. it.
I am not gentle with my nails at all. I chase two kids. I'm constantly scrubbing and cleaning something and this held up. It took a while for me, but like I said mom always polished my nails growing up, so I feel about as coordinated as a two year old. Polishing my left hand is no problem, the right hand however is a completely different story.
Anyway this lasted perfectly on me for 1 1/2 weeks. Then I had just a few tiny chips which probably could have been alleviated if I had sealed the edges of my nails better. So give it a try! Here is my most recent finished manicure.
During the summer, it seems like I am always shaving my legs. So, I saw this on Pinterest and thought I would give it a try too.
Mix 1/2 C oil, 3 tbs citrus juice and 1 1/4 C sugar. Rub it on your legs, shave then rinse your legs. Then do it again - rub, shave, rinse. Wash your legs with soap to get some of the oil off.
Think of this as shaving, exfoliating and moisturizing all in one. My legs stayed SO SOFT for a long time. I loved this pin!
Monday, June 24, 2013
Seasons
Next week I turn 30 which is crazy because most of the time I still think I'm 24. For some reason, I've thought and reflected about this upcoming birthday more than any other (with the possible exception of my 16th. Hello drivers license!)
30 is one of those milestone birthdays that many people (especially girls) dread. I honestly don't dread it, as my grandma says turning 30 "sure beats the alternative!" But I have always thought of 30 as adult.Like a real adult. Don't laugh. I know that I'm a married mom of two and that I should consider myself an adult at this point but that's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about the I've-got-this-all-figured-out adult.
Back when I was 17 and just graduating high school, I was certain there would be a point (surely by the age of 30!) that I would be an adult and have everything figured out. You know, I would somehow have managed the discover how to maintain a spotless house, cook amazing meals every day,and keep up with all the errands.I would have a beautiful flower garden and maybe even grow some veggies or herbs. I just knew I would have 3 or 4 perfectly behaved, Jesus lovin', funny, well-rounded and absolutely adorable children. We would craft, and sing and read and they would NEVER bicker or throw temper tantrums. I would always be wonderful,even-tempered, attentive, supporting and loving wife. I would have a deep and consistently growing relationship with the Lord. I would be active in my church. And of course I would do all of this while managing to be a size four in an adorable dress and the perfect shoes.
hahaha
So, here I am a week away from 30 and certainly don't have it all figured out. So many of my dreams have come true. Some haven't yet. I haven't figured out how to perfectly balance my wonderful husband, 2 kids, housework, exercise, errands, and time with the Lord. But I've learned to give myself grace when I fail to meet what I think I have to get done, as long as I'm focusing on my priorities.
I certainly don't have everything figured out. But I'm ok with that too. I've learned that seasons seem to change at the blink of an eye. It's so quick that it sends my head swirling in a million directions but in the middle of my chaos stands One who is steady and faithful. One who is never taken off guard or surprised. One who does have it all figured out -- I love that I don't have to have it all figured out because I know who to run to with my cares and concerns, my dreams and desires -- and there is so much peace in that.
This summer I am a part of an amazing small group. It is hands down my favorite summer small group ever. It is filled with mostly single girls - there are a couple of other married girls & one engaged. Oh, how I love Monday nights. Once you move out of that season, you forget what it's like to be so excited about a first date, the anxious feelings before you get married, or the deep longing to have your 1st baby. Our tendency is to want to rush through whatever season we are in right now instead of sitting back and savoring the moment. I love watching these girls enjoy their seasons.
I remember being single and praying to be in a relationship. Then praying for a spouse. After getting married praying for kids. My twenties have been amazing. I've gone through several different seasons but I've savored few of them.
I wonder sometimes what blessings we miss in our current season, because we are so focus on what's next.
So, I may not have it all figured out. In fact, I probably had more "figured out" at 17 than I do now but I will enjoy where I am now. I'm married to an amazing man and blessed with two crazy, Jesus lovin' babies. I am blessed indeed.
30 is one of those milestone birthdays that many people (especially girls) dread. I honestly don't dread it, as my grandma says turning 30 "sure beats the alternative!" But I have always thought of 30 as adult.Like a real adult. Don't laugh. I know that I'm a married mom of two and that I should consider myself an adult at this point but that's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about the I've-got-this-all-figured-out adult.
hahaha
So, here I am a week away from 30 and certainly don't have it all figured out. So many of my dreams have come true. Some haven't yet. I haven't figured out how to perfectly balance my wonderful husband, 2 kids, housework, exercise, errands, and time with the Lord. But I've learned to give myself grace when I fail to meet what I think I have to get done, as long as I'm focusing on my priorities.
I certainly don't have everything figured out. But I'm ok with that too. I've learned that seasons seem to change at the blink of an eye. It's so quick that it sends my head swirling in a million directions but in the middle of my chaos stands One who is steady and faithful. One who is never taken off guard or surprised. One who does have it all figured out -- I love that I don't have to have it all figured out because I know who to run to with my cares and concerns, my dreams and desires -- and there is so much peace in that.
This summer I am a part of an amazing small group. It is hands down my favorite summer small group ever. It is filled with mostly single girls - there are a couple of other married girls & one engaged. Oh, how I love Monday nights. Once you move out of that season, you forget what it's like to be so excited about a first date, the anxious feelings before you get married, or the deep longing to have your 1st baby. Our tendency is to want to rush through whatever season we are in right now instead of sitting back and savoring the moment. I love watching these girls enjoy their seasons.
I remember being single and praying to be in a relationship. Then praying for a spouse. After getting married praying for kids. My twenties have been amazing. I've gone through several different seasons but I've savored few of them.
I wonder sometimes what blessings we miss in our current season, because we are so focus on what's next.
So, I may not have it all figured out. In fact, I probably had more "figured out" at 17 than I do now but I will enjoy where I am now. I'm married to an amazing man and blessed with two crazy, Jesus lovin' babies. I am blessed indeed.
Tuesday, June 18, 2013
the laid-back boy and the toddler supermodel
Today was Lane's 5 year check-up and Bethany's 3 year check-up. (yes, I realize it's over a month after their actual birthday but better late than never, right?) Lane did everything first today since he's the big kid. He did his weight, height, blood pressure, vision and hearing screening like a champ. Then gladly chose his stickers.
...and then it was Bethany's turn. I'm not sure if I've ever mentioned this but she HATES getting on the scales at the doctor. There is weeping, wailing, gnashing of teeth. Oh the drama. I finally took her to the bathroom and after a little "conversation" she managed to hop on the scale for a second. The height measurement went about the same. After moments like that I like to remind myself of her sweet giggles.
Lane is 3ft 6 in (45%) and 37 1/2 lbs (25%). This is right on track for him. Bethany is 3 ft 3 1/2 inches (95%) and 29 lbs (25%). Homegirl is very tall and skinny, my little toddler supermodel :)
Overall they had a great checkup. The only red flag that went up was Bethany's tonsils. She apparently inherited my very large tonsils. Dr. A said not to be surprised if we need to take them out next summer.
Here are a couple of recent quotes/moments with the kids:
Bethany stared at me for a while then said : What is it?
- a freckle
b: (gasp!) Can I touch it!?
hahaha
Bethany has been obsessed with doctors for awhile. This weekend she kept running around the house yelling "I need a heartbeat! I con't (said with an English accent) find it!" (translation: I need my stethoscope)
She has suddenly become VERY interested in princesses. She and Lane have started playing princess and prince and they go to the ball in her room and dance. Somehow I'm not sure their dancing is the same as Cinderella's. (I'll try to sneak a video of this. So precious!)
Lane talks non-stop about being a grown up now because he has flip-flops without the back strap. He has also started getting his jammies on and telling us good night if he is tired before bedtime. So grown. :)
Overall they had a great checkup. The only red flag that went up was Bethany's tonsils. She apparently inherited my very large tonsils. Dr. A said not to be surprised if we need to take them out next summer.
Here are a couple of recent quotes/moments with the kids:
Bethany stared at me for a while then said : What is it?
- a freckle
b: (gasp!) Can I touch it!?
hahaha
Bethany has been obsessed with doctors for awhile. This weekend she kept running around the house yelling "I need a heartbeat! I con't (said with an English accent) find it!" (translation: I need my stethoscope)
She has suddenly become VERY interested in princesses. She and Lane have started playing princess and prince and they go to the ball in her room and dance. Somehow I'm not sure their dancing is the same as Cinderella's. (I'll try to sneak a video of this. So precious!)
Lane talks non-stop about being a grown up now because he has flip-flops without the back strap. He has also started getting his jammies on and telling us good night if he is tired before bedtime. So grown. :)
Monday, June 17, 2013
Summer Bucket List
On one of the last day's of preschool, Lane brought home the cutest little bucket list with 3 things he wanted to do over the summer. It was so cute and he was ALL about the list! I saw several cute bucket list type things on pinterest and decided we would make a BIG bucket list. The kids helped me come up with a lot of the items, so if it seems like something so small or slightly repetitive, it was probable VERY important to a certain little one. Some are life skills that need to be learned or character traits I want to help develop. Some of the items are pinterest projects that I've been meaning to try out one day. I figured if I put it on the list, Lane would not let me forget to try it!
So, after we compiled our list, I broke out the poster board. We are adding star stickers in the boxes after we complete the items. Lane clearly does not understand how long summer break last because he kept asking if we could do the bucket list (all 101 things) that day. I've had to explain and explain that we will try to do at least one thing a day.
So, after we compiled our list, I broke out the poster board. We are adding star stickers in the boxes after we complete the items. Lane clearly does not understand how long summer break last because he kept asking if we could do the bucket list (all 101 things) that day. I've had to explain and explain that we will try to do at least one thing a day.
So here's our list in no particular order:
- zoo
- swim lessons
- ride bikes
- play-doh
- beach
- Maggie and Miller
- glowstick bath
- $5 at dollar tree - Memaw and Papaw started something ;)
- facepaint
- treasure hunt
- Splash Pad
- swim
- potato stamps
- read
- Gigi and Bo's house
- Legos
- do something nice for a stranger
- rollerskate
- play in the rain
- scavenger hunt
- McWane
- slip n'slide
- feed the ducks
- popcorn party
- start a worm collection
- Mexican Grill
- make crayons
- make a band
- tea party
- library storytime
- bubbles
- farmer's market
- go fishing
- mommy date - (each child gets alone time with me)
- daddy date - (each child gets alone time with Chris)
- fly kites
- Oak Mountain Park
- chalk
- watercolor
- write and mail a letter
- waterguns
- Aldridge Gardens
- water balloons
- blanket fort
- paperbag puppets
- board games
- do something nice for a neighbor
- hopscotch
- paper airplanes
- play dress up
- make a stepping stone
- picnic
- movie night
- walk around the lake
- host a playdate
- fireworks
- cereal necklace
- use garden tools
- hide and seek
- watch an outdoor movie
- bowling
- road trip
- make lollipops
- learn to fold towels
- Veteran's park
- pick fruit
- take cookies and cards to the firemen (the kids have become very interested in the firemen since that time we had to run down to the firestation to see if Bethany needed stitches. Now the kids understand they are heroes, just wait till they understand what they really do everyday! Woah!!)
- sprinkler
- handprint pillowcase
- make popsicles
- play computer games
- bouncy castles
- learn a new song
- Chick-fil-a playground
- ride a carousel
- A Play Place
- Texas
- paint
- find a NEW playground
- card games
- learn 3 Bible verses
- make a fieldtrip
- swim at night
- Movies
- Nana and Bo's house
- make icecream
- put on a play
- sticker albulm
- bake cookies
- "bike"wash
- Try a new food
After making the list, we thought of a couple more things that would be fun to do if we have time.
102. Desoto Caverns
103. Wild Animal Safari
What are your summer plans? I'd love to hear any other places to go, crafts to make, or games to play! The busier we stay, the less time they have to bicker :D
Wednesday, June 12, 2013
The sandbox
Lane and Bethany love to garden and help me in the yard. This is fantastic in early spring when I am planting flowers, however for the rest of the year they are constantly asking to dig. I've found Lane trying to dig up my grass, flowers, pine straw, anything that will stay still long enough. So, I knew I wanted to get them "a diggin' place" for their birthday. Our homeowners association is on the ridiculous side, so I knew the green turtle would cause numerous letters about property value plummeting so I turned to pinterest to find a more aesthetically pleasing sandbox.
I found several really neat ideas:
But, when I saw this idea I knew it was perfect for our space! I loved that it folded close to keep bugs or cats out - no neighborhood litter box! And I loved the bench since I knew they would want me in the sandbox with them.
Once again, Chris did an amazing job making something for the kids! We ended up making it larger than the plans. Ours is 6x6 so that several kids could play at once - I honestly can't imagine it much smaller at all!
Chris tried for a while to make it with out the kids seeing it at all, but that proved to be more difficult than we thought especially since Lane loved building things! So, eventually Chris let Lane help. Lane had a blast!
We ended up giving the kids the sandbox after Lane's 4k graduation (the day before their birthday party).It was pouring but as soon as the rain slacked off some we took them out. They were so excited! Bethany continued to play even after the rain started back!
Tuesday, June 11, 2013
the world wide web, cuban sandwiches, and strawberry lemonade cake
It's been 3 weeks since my last post. Not because I've run out of ideas or things to share. Nope not at all. May is generally my craziest time of the year - right up there with Christmas. The next event that I should have written about was Lane's graduation. Oh MY was it funny! Few things bring me to tears like a bunch of 4 and 5 year old kids on stage singing. So precious! I had planned to upload some of the videos until I realized they were all on Chris' Mac that he takes to work with him most days.
Y'all. seriously that MAC and I do. not. get. along. He has had the thing for a year and I still haven't figured out how many fingers I need to swipe in which direction. I feel like a 90 year old grandma calling some foreign speaking person to help me navigate the world wide web.
struggles.
Anywho, next week I'll get Lane to upload pictures from his preschool graduation to share with you all from is 4k graduation. I'm sure he will have it figured out in about the seconds.
Tech savvy I am not but I can cook. After Lane's little graduation, we were having my parents and grandparents, as well as, Chris' parents over for dinner. I knew better than to try to cook for 8 adults after the graduation. So I turned to one of our favorite, inexpensive, and easy crock pot meals that feeds a crowd - Cuban sandwiches! Mmm!
Mom and Dad went on vacation to Key West several years ago. While they were there they fell in love with these Cuban sandwiches. So obviously they went to a grocery store in search of the amazing bread. While they were at the store, mom spotted a little Cuban grandma and asked if she knew how they made the sandwiches. And like any good grandma would do, the lady took mom and dad around the grocery store showing them everything they would need and how to cook the meat. Love that sweet little lady! So here it is:
Cuban sandwiches from the kitchen of a little Cuban Granny:
ingredients:
Boston Butt
A stank load of garlic (I buy the little bag of garlic)
even more onions (like 5-6) {don't fear it somehow isn't an overwhelming amount}
Goya Mojo sauce (large bottle in the ethnic food isle)
Take your Boston butt and cut a ton of little slices all over it. Top bottom and sides. Then stuff the little slices with your garlic cloves. Put the meat in the crock pot. Pour the sauce over the meat. Slice the onions into rings. Fill the crock pot with the onion to the point that you think there is no more room and the lid might not close. Cook that bad boy all day long (6-8 hrs) Check back about an hour before it should be done. Check to see if you still have plenty of visible onions on top (they tend to cook down) You want plenty of "grilled" onions for your sandwich.
Now for the sandwich ingredients:
Cuban rolls (or some type of hoagie style bread)
Meat (from crockpot)
onions (from crockpot)
sliced ham (I buy the black forest ham from Costco)
Swiss cheese
mayo
mustard (regular or Dijon)
lettuce
dill pickles
Build your sandwich then press it on a panini press. Or if you don't have one, we use our George Forman grill. :)
So, so good! We served it with just chips because this is a crazy good and filling sandwich. Or you could go all out like mom does and serve it with back bean soup. I personally can never eat a whole sandwich and soup.
For dessert, I continued with my ridiculously easy theme for the night. I have aobsession deep love for this Strawberry Lemonade Cake recipe that I found on pinterest. I've made it several times and it has wiped out almost everywhere that I've taken it. The icing recipe make a ton so I've started taking the extra icing as a fruit dip. No need in wasting perfectly good icing, right?
Well, I didn't make that cake. I didn't have it in me to bake a cake and all that jazz. I was already making sugar cookies for Lane's birthday party, so I made a few extra. And by "made" what I mean is I baked the break apart and bake cookies. Then I made just the icing from the strawberry lemonade cake. I put out several different berries and we had a build your own fruit pizza bar. Delish and too easy!
Overall, it was a wonderful laid back evening! We went ahead and gave the kids their big birthday present that night. A sandbox built by my amazing husband!! I'll share pictures of that soon. :)
Y'all. seriously that MAC and I do. not. get. along. He has had the thing for a year and I still haven't figured out how many fingers I need to swipe in which direction. I feel like a 90 year old grandma calling some foreign speaking person to help me navigate the world wide web.
struggles.
Anywho, next week I'll get Lane to upload pictures from his preschool graduation to share with you all from is 4k graduation. I'm sure he will have it figured out in about the seconds.
Tech savvy I am not but I can cook. After Lane's little graduation, we were having my parents and grandparents, as well as, Chris' parents over for dinner. I knew better than to try to cook for 8 adults after the graduation. So I turned to one of our favorite, inexpensive, and easy crock pot meals that feeds a crowd - Cuban sandwiches! Mmm!
Mom and Dad went on vacation to Key West several years ago. While they were there they fell in love with these Cuban sandwiches. So obviously they went to a grocery store in search of the amazing bread. While they were at the store, mom spotted a little Cuban grandma and asked if she knew how they made the sandwiches. And like any good grandma would do, the lady took mom and dad around the grocery store showing them everything they would need and how to cook the meat. Love that sweet little lady! So here it is:
Cuban sandwiches from the kitchen of a little Cuban Granny:
ingredients:
Boston Butt
A stank load of garlic (I buy the little bag of garlic)
even more onions (like 5-6) {don't fear it somehow isn't an overwhelming amount}
Goya Mojo sauce (large bottle in the ethnic food isle)
Take your Boston butt and cut a ton of little slices all over it. Top bottom and sides. Then stuff the little slices with your garlic cloves. Put the meat in the crock pot. Pour the sauce over the meat. Slice the onions into rings. Fill the crock pot with the onion to the point that you think there is no more room and the lid might not close. Cook that bad boy all day long (6-8 hrs) Check back about an hour before it should be done. Check to see if you still have plenty of visible onions on top (they tend to cook down) You want plenty of "grilled" onions for your sandwich.
Now for the sandwich ingredients:
Cuban rolls (or some type of hoagie style bread)
Meat (from crockpot)
onions (from crockpot)
sliced ham (I buy the black forest ham from Costco)
Swiss cheese
mayo
mustard (regular or Dijon)
lettuce
dill pickles
Build your sandwich then press it on a panini press. Or if you don't have one, we use our George Forman grill. :)
So, so good! We served it with just chips because this is a crazy good and filling sandwich. Or you could go all out like mom does and serve it with back bean soup. I personally can never eat a whole sandwich and soup.
For dessert, I continued with my ridiculously easy theme for the night. I have a
Well, I didn't make that cake. I didn't have it in me to bake a cake and all that jazz. I was already making sugar cookies for Lane's birthday party, so I made a few extra. And by "made" what I mean is I baked the break apart and bake cookies. Then I made just the icing from the strawberry lemonade cake. I put out several different berries and we had a build your own fruit pizza bar. Delish and too easy!
Overall, it was a wonderful laid back evening! We went ahead and gave the kids their big birthday present that night. A sandbox built by my amazing husband!! I'll share pictures of that soon. :)
Tuesday, May 28, 2013
because some days stink as a parent
Today has been a day. Please, please someone tell me you have days like this. Days when 9 am feels much more like bedtime due to the number of temper tantrums, time-outs, spankings, and "conversations" that have already taken place. Days when you feel like crying because surely you have completely failed at parenting your just barely three year old.
My "go-to" habit on days like this is to blast worship music. It helps keep me calm because no one wants momma rage running around with toddler rage.
So today, I was fixing lunch. Bethany was screaming about something. Worship was playing and I started praying while fixing quesadillas. Now don't judge me because I'm sure your prayers are much more holy than mine, but my prayer went something like this..."God this sucks!Every stinking day for the past two weeks it's been fit after fit and I'm tired today.I'm over it. Seriously! What do I need to do, because obviously I'm not doing this right!?"
Wanna know what he said?? "When did I ever say discipline was easy. It's hard. It's hard for the one being disciplined AND for the one doing the discipline."
What?? First, that wasn't the answer I was wanting, but since He rarely thinks like I do, because, you know ,His thoughts are higher than my thoughts...I decided to go to the Bible
Hebrews 12:6 & 11 because the Lord disciplines the one he loves and he chastens everyone he accepts as his son....No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.
God loves my kids way more than I love them (unfathomable, but true!). And He says He "disciplines us for our good, in order that we may share in his holiness." vs 10
So the the whole time he is disciplining us, he has an end goal - our holiness.
So, the first word of encouragement I got out of this is He feels my pain! He knows all too well how frustrating it is to watch a child purposefully do exactly what you asked them not to do or exactly what will cause them harm. He understands and does not grow weary. So I can constantly turn to Him as my source of strength and wisdom. Thank you Jesus!
The second word I got out of that is do I know my end-goal for my kids? Because with out a goal, how do I know I'm moving in the right direction, right? I think I know my end goals, but i'm not sure I've ever written it down. I think I shall do that soon! More on this later...
Today after Bethany threw so many fits she sat down with all her lovies and started singing "Jesus loves me" It was truly just a precious reminder to me that Jesus loves me. Even on my hard days, he is here with me walking with me. He reminded me that seeds are being planted in my kids life. Seeds take time to grow. I can't expect my 3 year old to be selfless, kind and obedient overnight. But I can continue to plant and water the seeds. Our church, friends and family will help nurture these seeds too. And then eventually they will bloom into beautiful, loving, godly kids. I just need to be faithful in the process.
My "go-to" habit on days like this is to blast worship music. It helps keep me calm because no one wants momma rage running around with toddler rage.
So today, I was fixing lunch. Bethany was screaming about something. Worship was playing and I started praying while fixing quesadillas. Now don't judge me because I'm sure your prayers are much more holy than mine, but my prayer went something like this..."God this sucks!Every stinking day for the past two weeks it's been fit after fit and I'm tired today.I'm over it. Seriously! What do I need to do, because obviously I'm not doing this right!?"
Wanna know what he said?? "When did I ever say discipline was easy. It's hard. It's hard for the one being disciplined AND for the one doing the discipline."
What?? First, that wasn't the answer I was wanting, but since He rarely thinks like I do, because, you know ,His thoughts are higher than my thoughts...I decided to go to the Bible
Hebrews 12:6 & 11 because the Lord disciplines the one he loves and he chastens everyone he accepts as his son....No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.
God loves my kids way more than I love them (unfathomable, but true!). And He says He "disciplines us for our good, in order that we may share in his holiness." vs 10
So the the whole time he is disciplining us, he has an end goal - our holiness.
So, the first word of encouragement I got out of this is He feels my pain! He knows all too well how frustrating it is to watch a child purposefully do exactly what you asked them not to do or exactly what will cause them harm. He understands and does not grow weary. So I can constantly turn to Him as my source of strength and wisdom. Thank you Jesus!
The second word I got out of that is do I know my end-goal for my kids? Because with out a goal, how do I know I'm moving in the right direction, right? I think I know my end goals, but i'm not sure I've ever written it down. I think I shall do that soon! More on this later...
Today after Bethany threw so many fits she sat down with all her lovies and started singing "Jesus loves me" It was truly just a precious reminder to me that Jesus loves me. Even on my hard days, he is here with me walking with me. He reminded me that seeds are being planted in my kids life. Seeds take time to grow. I can't expect my 3 year old to be selfless, kind and obedient overnight. But I can continue to plant and water the seeds. Our church, friends and family will help nurture these seeds too. And then eventually they will bloom into beautiful, loving, godly kids. I just need to be faithful in the process.
Friday, May 24, 2013
Lane's Birthday
Monday, May 13th was Lane's 5th birthday. I originally planned to tape balloons on his door like I did for Bethany. However, after he fell asleep I remembered that he has several of his favorite school projects taped to his bedroom door. So, I changed plans and just put balloons in the little hallway to his room. He was so excited when he woke up on his birthday!
Then, he and Chris spent a good bit of time launching catapults and driving remote control cars.
For his birthday breakfast, I offered to fix ANYTHING he wanted but he chose a frozen waffle. So, we stuck a candle in the waffle and sang Happy Birthday!
After school we took Lane to Treetop Family Adventure. We had never been out there before. Lane and Bethany had a blast playing in the playground, bowling and
...."playing" miniature golf. Lane is in desperate need for his Papaw to come teach him how to golf. He has quite the unusual technique for hitting the golf ball!
We spent a VERY long time on this hole. It had four levels. The kids had a blast taking turns dropping the ball in the hole and watching where it would roll out on the next level.
After Treetop, Lane chose where he wanted to eat for his birthday dinner. He chose Don Pepe. Can you tell we like Mexican food just a little bit!
Overall, it was a wonderful day spent celebrating my sweet boy! We love you Lane!
He ran to the table and found all his little presents wrapped in superhero paper!
Then, he and Chris spent a good bit of time launching catapults and driving remote control cars.
For his birthday breakfast, I offered to fix ANYTHING he wanted but he chose a frozen waffle. So, we stuck a candle in the waffle and sang Happy Birthday!
Then, it was time to quickly hurry and get ready for school. Lane was so excited to take his special snack to school. What did he want...cake? cupcakes? nope, plain sugar cookies with NO sprinkles or icing. (he was very clear about that!) So, that's what we did! Mom found some really cute cookies that had birthday pictures (They were just like the holiday cookies you bake with a flag, a snowman, a heart, etc) I had never seen them before! So we had those and true plain sugar cookies. Gigi came and surprised Lane at school during his special snack. Lane was thrilled! [On a side note, Bethany came with me to Lane's classroom and she had a blast. She sat like such a big girl at the table with him. She was SO PROUD to be at school! She even jumped in on a couple of class pictures!]
Sweet friends!
and Bethany :)
...and one with Mrs. Kay, the best 4K teacher ever! Lane absolutely adores her!
After school we took Lane to Treetop Family Adventure. We had never been out there before. Lane and Bethany had a blast playing in the playground, bowling and
...."playing" miniature golf. Lane is in desperate need for his Papaw to come teach him how to golf. He has quite the unusual technique for hitting the golf ball!
We spent a VERY long time on this hole. It had four levels. The kids had a blast taking turns dropping the ball in the hole and watching where it would roll out on the next level.
After Treetop, Lane chose where he wanted to eat for his birthday dinner. He chose Don Pepe. Can you tell we like Mexican food just a little bit!
Overall, it was a wonderful day spent celebrating my sweet boy! We love you Lane!
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